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Creating a More Positive Identity

…ilize their personal power and actively contribute to their own growth and development, in essence becoming their own ally. In this regard it is most important to become aware of the enemy within, the negative thoughts and attitudes that play a significantly destructive part in your life.” How do we make fundamental decisions that enhance and reflect who we are when we are so turned against ourselves? How do we counter the vicious thought process…

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Why Men Are Resistant to Therapy

…forced to quit the race. Throughout history, people in powerful leadership roles have tried to hide or downplay any signs of mental vulnerability. They go to great lengths to mask perceived physical or emotional “weakness” and show only strength. This was the case with John F. Kennedy, who had to manage crippling back pain with mega-doses of pain medication, and Franklin Roosevelt, who tried to cover up his polio. And now we have a president who i…

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Is Narcissism Shaped by Attachment Style?

…nt history. A technique that assists them in accessing this history is the development of an autobiographical narrative. Exploring how patterns of attachment relate to the expression of narcissism may be another avenue by which we can shed light onto the subject of how a narcissistic personality disorder forms, as well as how we can treat it. Findings from a 2014 study led researchers to conclude that “assessing adult attachment may be important i…

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The Paradox of Psychological Defenses

…ose closest to you. Being defended tends to preclude or interfere with the development of genuine and satisfying relationships. It leaves you feeling isolated and potentially paranoid around those with whom you could otherwise enjoy warm and intimate exchanges. To the extent you are defended, you are cut off from being able to experience genuine feeling — the good, the bad and the ugly. To varying degrees, you walk through your life in a numbed st…

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Recognizing Complex Trauma

…caregivers or other ostensibly responsible adults, and (3) often occur at developmentally vulnerable times in the victim’s life, especially in early childhood or adolescence, but can also occur later in life and in conditions of vulnerability associated with disability/ disempowerment/dependency/age /infirmity, and so on. The nature, diagnosis, and treatment of this condition can be controversial, as exemplified through the current debate that’s…

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Fighting Post-Graduation Anxiety

…a serious psychological condition that limits us in our interactions, our development, and our general state of mind.” By giving in to stress and anxiety, you stop behaving your best. You start doubting yourself and become self-limiting. You give in to your critical inner voice, the self-destructive thought process that creates nagging thoughts and doubts. This can eventually coax you out of taking on challenges and going after your goals. So it…

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Watch Exclusive Video Interviews with Dr. Pat Love

…than 25 years, she has contributed to relationship education and personal development through her books, articles, training programs, speaking, and media appearances. Dr. Love has published several professional articles, been featured in many professional books and developed relationships education media and materials being used nationally and internationally. Her ever-popular books Hot Monogamy and The Truth About Love have literally taken her a…

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Changing the Developmental Trajectory for Infants with Autism

…grows up in, and to see whether changes at home might alter the biological development of the condition. It is based on a daily therapy, the Early Start Denver Model, that uses games and pretend play to engage toddlers with autism. This therapy has been shown in randomized trials to significantly improve I.Q., language and social skills in these children, and researchers say it has even greater potential if it can be started earlier. “What you ult…

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Compassionate Child Rearing

…The way we treat our children in moments of stress is what stays with them throughout their development….

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What’s Wrong With Kids Watching TV

…n the minds of concerned parents. The effects TV can have on child’s brain development and learning abilities are worth considering. The social, physical and educational woes that can result deserve even more attention since the release of a new study reported by CNN that links TV time with problems in school and unhealthy habits. As we consider the possible outcomes of too technology, it’s important to weigh the psychological effects of TV on a c…

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