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5 Ways to Overcome Your Fear of Love

…to reflect back on us, filling our lives with meaningful interactions and relationships. As this occurs, life is sure to feel more precious, but isn’t that the idea? Join Dr. Lisa Firestone for the online course “Creating Your Ideal Relationship: How to Find and Achieve the Love You Say You Want.”…

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Defense Mechanisms

…re situations like sports or academics, or playing video games,” wrote Dr. Lisa Firestone, who co-authored Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice with Robert Firestone. “As an adult, it can mean becoming anti-social, avoiding goal-driven behaviors, or abusing substances like alcohol. Our defense mechanisms may influence us to engage in self-soothing rituals or to avoid perceived dangers.” Defense Mechanisms in Adulthood As adults, catching on to our de…

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The Fear of Intimacy

…botage relationships and interfere with career success. The book also introduces Dr. Robert W. Firestone’s theory of the “fantasy bond,” a once-useful but now destructive form of self-parenting that jeopardizes meaningful attachments. Written in clear, jargon-free language, Fear of Intimacy helps couples identify and overcome the messages of the “critical inner voice,” an internalized point of view that negatively distorts our perception of oursel…

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Resources from How to Make Love Last – A Webinar With Lisa Firestone, Ph.D.

…n their relationship or suffering pain and distress? This webinar with Dr. Lisa Firestone helps answer these questions. Participants will gain insight into how people form an imaginary connection or ‘fantasy bond” with their partner that interferes with real relating. The ideal qualities to look for in a partner and to cultivate in yourself will be described. By identifying and challenging negative thoughts toward themselves and their partner (cri…

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Lisa Firestone, Ph.D.

…lationships and Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice. Visit her site at www.drlisa*]}*firestone.com. Articles on the Self As Iraq Ends, A New Battle with PTSD Begins With 40,000 men and women returning home from Iraq in the next few months, we must greet them with the tools to combat the emotional wounds of battle. Developing resilience can truly break the internal cycle that leaves so many individuals chronically stuck in a traumatized state. . The ‘Ant

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Insight into the Violent Mind

…s. Historically, in studying the voices associated with suicidal ideology, Lisa Firestone, PhD and I developed a scale to predict the potential for suicide. Items were based on a series of increasingly negative self-critical thoughts and self-attacks. Clients were asked to endorse which items they experienced and how frequently. The scale effectively distinguishes suicidal from non-suicidal individuals at a high level of significance. We applied t…

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The Fantasy Bond Explained: A Free Webinar Event with Dr. Lisa Firestone

…Fantasy Bond This video, featuring exclusive interview clips with Dr. Lisa Firestone and Dr. Robert Firestone, will give you a brief understanding of what it means to be in a Fantasy Bond and how to identify if you suffer from a Fantasy Bond in your own intimate relationship. To learn more about The Fantasy Bond, Register for our FREE webinar on Tuesday, April 24th from 11am-12pm PST. This Webinar presents a model for an ideal relationship that co…

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Creating Thriving Relationships: Free Webinar with Drs. Daniel Siegel and Lisa Firestone

…ance. We hope you join us! There are NO CEs available for this webinar. Learn about the eCourse “Love and Connection” with Drs. Lisa Firestone and Dan Siegel….

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How to Deal with Relationship Anxiety

…y and how to identify and overcome your critical inner voice.   Learn more strategies for overcoming relationship anxiety in our Webinar with Dr. Lisa Firestone: Understanding and Overcoming Relationship Anxiety….

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CE Webinar Resources: Overcoming the Fear of Intimacy

…Here you will find all resources from the Jan. 21 CE Webinar “Overcoming the Fear of Intimacy.” View slides from Overcoming the Fear of Intimacy To purchase a free full video recording of this webinar, click here. Recommended Books To see a list of mentioned films from this Webinar click here See Upcoming Webinars from PsychAlive…

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