critical inner voice

How to Stop Anxiety

Those of us who struggle with anxiety know how it can undermine us. We feel... >>

How to Deal with Jealousy

No one enjoys feeling jealous. Yet, jealousy is an inevitable emotion that pretty much every... >>

What’s Wrong with Needing to Be the Best

To strive for greatness is not an unworthy goal, but the desire to be great... >>

Trust Issues: Why Is It So Hard for Some People to Trust?

It is mutual trust, even more than mutual interest that holds human associations together.  ... >>

Just Be Kind: The Only Relationship Advice You’ll Ever Need

You may already be rolling your eyes at the vast oversimplification of this title… and... >>

“Nobody Likes Me:” Understanding Loneliness and Self-shame

    There is perhaps no more painful thought in the world than that of... >>

5 Ways You’re Rejecting Love

Most people don’t naturally think they reject love, but the question really isn’t whether we... >>

I Want to Die

Each day thousands of people are tormented by the thought, I want to die. If... >>

How to Say What You Want in Your Relationship

In my 30 years working with couples, I’ve noticed that most people have an easy... >>