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…could truly care for us. This low opinion is often the work of a “critical inner voice” we all possess, which is like an enemy in our head that constantly tries to bring us down. This “voice” likes to make us feel unloveable and doubtful of anyone’s feelings toward us. It fosters critical and suspicious attitudes in us toward ourselves, our partners, and relationships in general. Because this voice is shaped out of painful childhood experiences an…
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…titudes and often experience them as an internal commentary or a “critical inner voice” that attacks their sexuality. This inner critic may feed them harsh thoughts toward themselves, their partner, or sex, in general. Some examples I’ve heard from men and women recently include: “You’re so ugly. No one would want to see you naked. Cover yourself up.” “Sex is gross. You should try not to think about it.” “He’ll think you’re a slut if you sleep wit…
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…false sense of security than the end of real, loving relating,” wrote Dr. Lisa Firestone. “When we break up with someone, and we are willing to let go of this illusion of connection, we might find that we are far less devastated by the separation.” Breaking the fantasy bond with a former partner is often key to moving on. Feel the feelings It’s normal to be emotionally raw after a breakup. Although, these feelings can feel overwhelming, we should…
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…, then no matter what anyone else does or what happens, you can feel your own sense of power and stay open to real love in your life. Learn more in Dr. Lisa Firestone’s upcoming Webinar, “6 Reasons Most People are Afraid of Love.”…
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…our current situation. Our insecurities can further stem from a “critical inner voice” that we’ve internalized based on negative programming from our past. If we had a parent who hated themselves, for example, or who directed critical attitudes toward us, we tend to internalize this point of view and carry it with us like a cruel coach inside our heads. This inner critic tends to be very vocal about the things that really matter to us, like our r…
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…s. Historically, in studying the voices associated with suicidal ideology, Lisa Firestone, PhD and I developed a scale to predict the potential for suicide. Items were based on a series of increasingly negative self-critical thoughts and self-attacks. Clients were asked to endorse which items they experienced and how frequently. The scale effectively distinguishes suicidal from non-suicidal individuals at a high level of significance. We applied t…
Learn More…e Sep. 10 Understanding and Preventing Suicide Free Webinar Presenter: Dr. Lisa Firestone 11am – 12pm PST Learn more or register here Sep. 11 Cottage Hospital Grand Rounds Suicide: What Mental Health Professionals Need to Know Santa Barbara, CA Learn more here Sep. 12 Help Save a Life: Suicide Prevention Response CSU Channel Islands Suicide Prevention Week Channel Islands, CA Learn more here Sep. 17 Suicide: What Every Professional Should Know CE…
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…to avoid turning to violence. If you or a loved one is in trouble, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline -1-800-799-SAFE (7233). On Nov. 12, you can attend a free Webinar with Dr. Lisa Firestone, featuring violence expert Dr. James Gilligan on “Why Does Violence Occur and How Can We Prevent It?” Learn more or register here …
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…ook already and I write for mental health professionals.” Then I turned to Lisa Firestone. Her response, “Good idea, but I don’t have the time. I’m busy with my work at The Glendon Association and my blogs and my private practice.” Then they both said the same thing: “You should write it!” I said, “You can’t be serious!” My critical inner voice said, “You can’t write a book! Who are you kidding?” But my family and friends persisted in their suppor…
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