Attachment

Attachment refers the particular way in which you relate to other people. Your style of attachment was formed at the very beginning of your life, during your first two years. Once established, it is a style that stays with you and plays out today in how you relate in intimate relationships and in how you parent your children. Understanding your style of attachment is helpful because it offers you insight into how you felt and developed in your childhood. It also clarifies ways that you are emotionally limited as an adult and what you need to change to improve your close relationships and your relationship with your own children.

Avoidant Attachment: Understanding Insecure Avoidant Attachment

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Anxious Attachment: Understanding Insecure Anxious Attachment

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VIDEO: Dr. Allan Schore on Attachment Trauma and Effects of Neglect and Abuse on Brain Development

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VIDEO: Dr. Peter Levine on the Impact of Infant Attachment on Society

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How Your Attachment Style Impacts Your Relationship

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Disorganized Attachment: How Disorganized Attachments Form & How They Can Be Healed

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VIDEO: Attuned Attachment and Healthy Attachment

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Dr. Christine Courtois on Complex Trauma and Cognitive Distortion: VIDEO

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