self-understanding
Laugh it Up: Why Laughing Brings Us Closer Together
Having the last laugh may be more important than you think…literally. New research reveals that... >>
Understanding Our Style of Relating When Triggered
When we are triggered emotionally, it can all feel sort of choiceless; like we have... >>
The Joy of Sadness
Upon exploring my psychological issues rather late in life I discovered something entirely unforeseen: that... >>
Dr. Pat Love Defines Four Basic Keys to Loving
Dr. Pat Love describes four basic actions to take that constitute a concrete offering of... >>
What’s Really Keeping You Out of Your Swimsuit This Year
The 4th of July weekend carried a strange theme for me this year. It started... >>
A Definition Of Loving with Dr. Pat Love
In an exclusive interview with PsychAlive, Dr. Pat Love explains and defines the unique paradigm... >>
Don’t Play the Victim Game
In Psychological Defenses in Everyday Life, (1989), I described a patient who complained that her husband... >>
Evicting the "Obnoxious Roommate" In Your Head
I scanned the sea of black-robed 20-somethings for my sister’s familiar face. As I glanced... >>
Mindsight: The Unexpected Value of Getting to Know Yourself
With everything in the world from our language to our LinkedIn networks growing bigger, more... >>
Sabotage You
Your boss is evil. Your spouse is lazy. Your teenager doesn’t listen. Your best friend... >>