critical inner voice

How to Fix a Relationship

“In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what... >>

In a Relationship with a Narcissist? What You Need to Know About Narcissistic Relationships

Narcissistic relationships are formed when one or both partners struggle with a narcissistic personality. Narcissistic... >>

Are You Sacrificing a Perfect Relationship for a Perfect Wedding?

The peak season for “I do’s” is upon us, and if you’re among the excited... >>

The Dangers of Narcissistic Parents

How narcissistic parents substitute emotional hunger for love. For me, one of the best examples... >>

Qualities of an Ideal Therapist

Outcome studies in psychotherapy have shown that “The therapist is a key change ingredient in... >>

Advantages of Dating After 40

On Dec. 31, 2009, one day before the baby boomer generation turned 65, a New... >>

Leaving Your Childhood Behind to Become a Better Parent

One mistake we make as parents is assuming that there is one way to parent... >>

What is a Mentally Healthy Person? An Interview with Robert Firestone, Ph.D.

A few weeks ago at Esalen, a retreat center in Big Sur, CA, I co-taught... >>

Stop the Blame Game to Improve Your Relationship

When it comes to placing blame in a relationship, it’s almost always easier to see... >>

5 Achievable Resolutions for a Longer, Happier Life

Resolutions are notorious for falling by the wayside a few months or even days into... >>