relationship issues
Are You Addicted to Your Relationship?
We’ve all been through it: the incessant checking of our phone, the tossing and turning... >>
Having Healthy Sex and Relationships After Sexual Abuse
Sexual trauma, abuse and violence impact a surprisingly large number of people — maybe even... >>
Defense Mechanisms
“When children are faced with pain and anxiety in their developmental years, they develop defense... >>
Beware of the Soulmate Myth
The Fantasy Bond Behind the Myth of the Soulmate I know people who say their... >>
Are You Expecting Too Much from Your Partner?
These 7 ways we over-rely on our partner can seriously hurt our relationship. When a... >>
5 Ways to Rewrite Your Breakup Story and Feel Better
How to make sense of and feel better about a breakup. As a therapist, I... >>
Why Do Couples Fall in and Out of Love?
“Falling in love is natural… sustaining love is unnatural. Sustaining love requires psychology, art and... >>
Is My Self-Hatred Getting in the Way of Love?
How your negative self-image puts you at odds with your lover. When we first fall... >>
Do You or Your Partner Have an Anxious Attachment?
Relationships are very much about give and take. At their best, they are a back-and-forth... >>
Do You or Your Partner Have an Avoidant Attachment Pattern?
A while back when recording a podcast, my team at PsychAlive and I asked a... >>