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7 Behaviors That Ruin a Relationship

How can you avoid the patterns that destroy a loving relationship? The question of why... >>

Just Be Kind: The Only Relationship Advice You’ll Ever Need

You may already be rolling your eyes at the vast oversimplification of this title… and... >>

5 Ways You’re Rejecting Love

Most people don’t naturally think they reject love, but the question really isn’t whether we... >>

Insight into Extremism and the Terrorist Mentality

What causes prejudice, religious wars, terrorism and genocide? In fact, what are the psychodynamics behind... >>

Living Mom’s Life?

“I think I want to be good.”  A warm tear rolls down my cheek.  My... >>

Stay in Love by Staying Out of Fantasy

There may now be hard science behind the notion that true love can last a... >>

Why Do So Many People Respond Negatively to Being Loved?

Love — kindness, affection, sensitive attunement, respect, companionship — is not only difficult to find,... >>

Why Break Ups Hurt So Much

When we feel absolutely devastated by a relationship coming to an end, we should ask... >>

The Fantasy Bond: A substitute for a truly loving relationship

Defenses formed in childhood hurt adult relationships. Most people have fears of intimacy and are... >>

What Real Love Looks Like

Throughout our lives we compile a picture of what we think real love should look... >>