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7 Behaviors That Ruin a Relationship
How can you avoid the patterns that destroy a loving relationship? The question of why... >>
Just Be Kind: The Only Relationship Advice You’ll Ever Need
You may already be rolling your eyes at the vast oversimplification of this title… and... >>
5 Ways You’re Rejecting Love
Most people don’t naturally think they reject love, but the question really isn’t whether we... >>
Insight into Extremism and the Terrorist Mentality
What causes prejudice, religious wars, terrorism and genocide? In fact, what are the psychodynamics behind... >>
Living Mom’s Life?
“I think I want to be good.” A warm tear rolls down my cheek. My... >>
Stay in Love by Staying Out of Fantasy
There may now be hard science behind the notion that true love can last a... >>
Why Do So Many People Respond Negatively to Being Loved?
Love — kindness, affection, sensitive attunement, respect, companionship — is not only difficult to find,... >>
Why Break Ups Hurt So Much
When we feel absolutely devastated by a relationship coming to an end, we should ask... >>
The Fantasy Bond: A substitute for a truly loving relationship
Defenses formed in childhood hurt adult relationships. Most people have fears of intimacy and are... >>
What Real Love Looks Like
Throughout our lives we compile a picture of what we think real love should look... >>