fantasy bond
Daring to Love in the Time of Coronavirus
With people now having to “shelter in place,” couples are finding themselves spending an unusual... >>
How to Beat Boredom in Your Relationship: Drop into the Plane of Possibility
Relationships are naturally full of highs and lows, but perhaps the thing couples complain about... >>
Are You Addicted to Your Relationship?
We’ve all been through it: the incessant checking of our phone, the tossing and turning... >>
Beware of the Soulmate Myth
The Fantasy Bond Behind the Myth of the Soulmate I know people who say their... >>
Are You Expecting Too Much from Your Partner?
These 7 ways we over-rely on our partner can seriously hurt our relationship. When a... >>
5 Ways to Rewrite Your Breakup Story and Feel Better
How to make sense of and feel better about a breakup. As a therapist, I... >>
The Fantasy Bond in Couple Relationships
By the time they reach adulthood, most people have solidified their defenses and exist in... >>
Is My Self-Hatred Getting in the Way of Love?
The short answer is: yes! Hating yourself puts you directly at odds with someone who... >>
The Fantasy Bond or Primary Defense
This is the first in a series of blogs describing my theoretical approach known as... >>
How to Stop Fighting and Feel Close Again
Why is it that we fight the most with those we love the most? Is... >>