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“You Need Psychotherapy”
Psychotherapy is a luxury that you deserve. When I was in my early 20s, I... >>
The Fantasy Bond in Couple Relationships
By the time they reach adulthood, most people have solidified their defenses and exist in... >>
The Paradox of Psychological Defenses
Should we contend with painful realities or avoid them? Although psychological defenses offer a degree... >>
The Fantasy Bond or Primary Defense
This is the first in a series of blogs describing my theoretical approach known as... >>
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You Don’t Really Want to Get Better
Of course psychotherapy clients want relief from their symptoms, depression, anxiety, and other painful emotions. But at the... >>
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A Psychological Perspective on Human Destructiveness
My inspiration for writing this blog springs from a deep feeling for people and a... >>
Changing Your Sense of Identity
Recently, I wrote about “Living with an Accidental Identity.” I described how painful early experiences,... >>
Are You Giving Up on Love?
It’s hard to really wrap our heads around this. Yet, I find—over and over again—that... >>
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The Simple Truth about Anger
Feeling angry is a universal human phenomenon. It is as basic as feeling hungry, lonely,... >>
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VIDEO: Dr. Kirk Schneider – The Transformative Power of Awe
Watch an excerpt from PsychAlive’s exclusive interview with Dr. Kirk Schneider. Dr. Kirk Schneider talks... >>