victimization

How to Say What You Want in Your Relationship

In my 30 years working with couples, I’ve noticed that most people have an easy... >>

How to Stop Being a Victim

Challenging negative voices is the way to overcome a victimized orientation. Reject your sense of... >>

Is Sexual Stereotyping Affecting Your Relationship?

Sexual stereotypes are everywhere. We see them in commercials, where happy moms dance around their... >>

Don’t Play the Victim Game

In Psychological Defenses in Everyday Life, (1989), I described a patient who complained that her husband... >>