The Fantasy Bond Archives

In this blog, I am excited to share the introduction and conclusion from my new... >>

Real-World Romance for Real-Life Partners Last month, I finished revising and updating The Fantasy Bond... >>

Understanding the fantasy bond to get your relationship back on track. Many of us are... >>

Many struggles we face in our current interpersonal relationships arise from a core defense formed... >>

How common power dynamics destroy our closest relationships At a recent dinner party, I witnessed... >>

What causes prejudice, religious wars, terrorism and genocide? In fact, what are the psychodynamics behind... >>

There may now be hard science behind the notion that true love can last a... >>

Defenses formed in childhood hurt adult relationships. Most people have fears of intimacy and are... >>

Countless couples complain of losing the “spark” in their relationship. Some chalk it up to... >>

By way of introduction in this first blog post, I’d like to say straight away:... >>