intimacy problems
Defense Mechanisms
“When children are faced with pain and anxiety in their developmental years, they develop defense... >>
Beware of the Soulmate Myth
The Fantasy Bond Behind the Myth of the Soulmate I know people who say their... >>
Are You Expecting Too Much from Your Partner?
These 7 ways we over-rely on our partner can seriously hurt our relationship. When a... >>
Why Do Couples Fall in and Out of Love?
“Falling in love is natural… sustaining love is unnatural. Sustaining love requires psychology, art and... >>
Is My Self-Hatred Getting in the Way of Love?
How your negative self-image puts you at odds with your lover. When we first fall... >>
Do You or Your Partner Have an Anxious Attachment?
Relationships are very much about give and take. At their best, they are a back-and-forth... >>
How to Stop Feeling Triggered by Your Partner
In my last blog, I wrote about some of the psychological reasons we get triggered... >>
How to Build Healthy Relationships
Ever wish you could laugh and talk more easily with others? When you try to... >>
Why You Pick Fights with Your Partner… and How to Stop
“I love you, so why do we fight so much?” This quandary is one that... >>
The Fantasy Bond in Couple Relationships
By the time they reach adulthood, most people have solidified their defenses and exist in... >>