critical inner voice
The Paradox of Psychological Defenses
Should we contend with painful realities or avoid them? Although psychological defenses offer a degree... >>
The Impact of Death on our Everyday Lives
The conscious or unconscious fear of death can alter many aspects of behavior. Most people,... >>
Who’s the Boss in Your Relationship?
How common power dynamics destroy our closest relationships At a recent dinner party, I witnessed... >>
Can You Trust Your Own Perceptions?
If you’re familiar with the psychological term “transference,” you probably associate it with a client... >>
Living Mom’s Life?
“I think I want to be good.” A warm tear rolls down my cheek. My... >>
Do You Have an Honest Relationship?
For all the great things we say about being honest – that it’s the best... >>
Are You Giving Up on Love?
It’s hard to really wrap our heads around this. Yet, I find—over and over again—that... >>
VIDEO: Dr. Allan Schore on the Role of Non-Verbal Communication in Treating Suicidal Patients
Watch an excerpt from PsychAlive’s interview with Dr. Allan Schore. Dr. Allan Schore discusses the... >>
5 Simple Steps to End Any Fight
Fighting with a partner is one of those unpleasant parts of a relationship that we... >>
Why Competitive Feelings Are Good For You
Being competitive can have an ugly connotation in our society. It has become, in some... >>