In this live webinar, Dr. Reis will discuss the book he co-authored, “How to Feel Loved: The Five Mindsets that Get You More of What Matters Most.” He and Dr. Lisa Firestone will talk about its radical, hopeful, and science-backed shift in how to think about love, revealing that feeling loved isn’t about making ourselves more appealing or lovable; it’s about showing our full and vulnerable selves to others and encouraging our loved ones to reveal their full and vulnerable selves to us. This is true for romantic love but also for the love we feel in friendships, family, and beyond. He will introduce five powerful mindsets—tools to help us feel the love we want with the people in our lives.
How to Feel Loved: A Conversation with Dr. Harry Reis
LIVE Webinar on April 23, 2026. Join Dr. Harry Reis and learn about a radical, hopeful, and science-backed shift in how to think about love. This webinar is FREE with option to purchase 1.5 CEs for $10.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES:
1. Identify three myths about attachment styles that contradict current attachment research and relational neurobiology
2. Describe the attachment activation spectrum
3. Apply the spectrum concretely to real life and/or clinical practice Less…
Dr. Harry Reis is Professor of Psychology and Dean’s Professor at the University of Rochester. He is a leader in the field of Social Psychology and helped launch the field of Relationship Science. Noted for his contribution to theories of intimacy and responsiveness, he focuses on factors that influence social interaction and their consequences for health and well-being. He has special interest in intimacy, attachment, and emotion regulation. Dr. Reis has published more than 250 scholarly papers. He has served as President of the International Society for the Study of Personal Relationships, Chair of the American Psychological Association’s Board of Scientific Affairs, and President of the Society for Personality and Social Psychology. He is the recipient of numerous distinguished career awards.
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