love
Kindness Wins!
What’s the most important characteristic in a lifetime relationship partner? A recent study in the... >>
Are You Addicted to Your Relationship?
We’ve all been through it: the incessant checking of our phone, the tossing and turning... >>
Beware of the Soulmate Myth
The Fantasy Bond Behind the Myth of the Soulmate I know people who say their... >>
Are You Expecting Too Much from Your Partner?
These 7 ways we over-rely on our partner can seriously hurt our relationship. When a... >>
Why Do Couples Fall in and Out of Love?
“Falling in love is natural… sustaining love is unnatural. Sustaining love requires psychology, art and... >>
Is My Self-Hatred Getting in the Way of Love?
How your negative self-image puts you at odds with your lover. When we first fall... >>
Do You or Your Partner Have an Anxious Attachment?
Relationships are very much about give and take. At their best, they are a back-and-forth... >>
How to Improve Relationships By Knowing Your Attachment Style
Our first relationships profoundly shape how we connect with others. A baby’s earliest lessons teach... >>
How to Stop Feeling Triggered by Your Partner
In my last blog, I wrote about some of the psychological reasons we get triggered... >>
The Act of Loving
It’s so easy to overlook the fact that love is more than a feeling, it... >>