critical inner voice

Why Do We Underestimate Our Effect on Others?

New research shows that small acts of kindness have a much bigger impact than we... >>

Three Questions That Could Change Your Relationship With Food

When my niece was a teenager, she asked a group of her friends to guess... >>

Fantasy Bond 101

This month, I’ve been working on creating a whiteboard explaining the fantasy bond and I’ve... >>

Accepting “Good Enough” Friends and Partners

It’s pretty much to be expected that the people who matter most to us also... >>

Are You Sabotaging Yourself?

Many people struggle with reconciling what they think they want with what they go about... >>

How to Let People Help You

All of us have a longing to be the recipient of caring gestures and offerings... >>

Why It’s Okay to Feel Bad About Certain Things

Most of the time, I write about the downsides of self-criticism – so much so... >>

Why We Must Keep Nurturing Connection

If these past 18 months have forced us to evaluate anything, it’s the importance of... >>

Why We Don’t See Ourselves Clearly

On any given day of our lives, our self-esteem is likely to hit plenty of... >>

Nourishing Your Resilience in Hard Times

I was listening to a podcast recently where the host was talking about the state... >>